July 28, 2025
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 minute read

Pathos First, Logos Second. Always.

Written by
Jeremy Askew

In financial planning, we often rush straight into “logos” - facts, figures and logical arguments and forget the heart of the matter: “pathos.”

But without a deep understanding of your emotions, values and dreams - your pathos - the logic alone will eventually fall short.

Pathos first. Logos second. Always.

What is Logos?

Logos is the rational side of financial planning:

  • Showing historical investment returns and how different assets perform.
  • Using projections to show how saving today impacts your future.
  • Explaining tax rules clearly and calculating outcomes.
  • Matching your risk tolerance with suitable strategies based on data.

It’s the logic behind the plan - why it makes sense on paper.

But here’s the danger: logic alone isn’t enough.

If we focus too much on data and too little on emotion, the best-laid plans can unravel.

Why Pathos Matters More

Pathos is about you - your emotions, values, fears and dreams:

  • Why securing your family's future or retiring early really matters to you.
  • How market volatility makes you feel, and what reassurance you need.
  • What leaving a legacy truly means for your life story.

Pathos builds trust, emotional resilience, and, most importantly, meaning.

Three Reasons We Start With Pathos

  1. Financial decisions are emotional, not logical.
        Behavioural research shows we don't act on numbers alone.
        Even with perfect data, fear or hope drives our actions.
  2. Trust is built emotionally.
        You should only work with someone you trust - and trust grows from feeling heard, respected and understood, not from crunching numbers.
  3. Pathos creates meaning.
        Financial planning isn't about chasing returns.
        It's about creating a life filled with purpose, built around what matters most to you.

 

Our Commitment at TCFP

At Town Close, it’s pathos first, logos second.

We’ll start by understanding you - your hopes, fears, goals, and values and only then will we craft the logical plan to get you there.

Always.